Consider this, if diets really worked we would all be thin. Studies show that 95% of the people who go on a diet gain all the weight back plus more. This is the yo-yo effect of dieting.
There are a lot of myths and misunderstandings about the best way to burn body fat and look great in your “skinny jeans”. The bottom line is that it is your daily habits that create your body, not just a temporary diet that you don’t stick with or a workout program that you do every other week if you have time. It’s not just one thing you are participating in that is making you unfit, it’s many.
If you go on a diet that will be impossible to stay on the rest of your life or start another exercise plan that you give yourself permission to stop when you get bored or busy, then you should expect your body to return to its present state.
If you change what you do and what you eat every day, this is called a lifestyle change. You might be weight challenged because you sit a desk for eight hours. If so, you will have to come up with some creative ways to get in some movement during the day. It might also be that you skip too many meals which in turn will promote fat storage. The list is endless, but the reality is that if you are more that five to ten pounds overweight, this is an indication that a lifestyle overhaul may be due.
I suggest you start by making of a list of what you think is making you unfit. Second, investigate solutions to the problems. And third, make a plan to incorporate your solutions into your daily habits. If you take the time to evaluate what the real problems are, then long term weight loss will be the end result.
If you have any suggestions on habits that have gotten you in trouble in the past and have come up with a solutions to lack of time, motivation, mindset, and stress barriers, I would love to hear your ideas!